JAMES
A lovable rogue hence the reason Jennifer, our main character, has fallen in love with him. Jennifer approached James to be her lover as she did not want a serious relationship after her divorce.
James is intelligent, witty and yet no one really knows anything about his private life. His charm is magnetic, naturally drawing people to him, especially women who are themselves navigating challenges in life. There's an effortless quality to the way he connects, and people genuinely enjoy being around him.
Among his male companions, his jokes often take on a childish edge, sometimes leaving those around him and the women he teases feeling embarrassed. He has a mischievous schoolyard-boy energy that makes him entertaining, if occasionally exasperating.
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What do you think keeps James' behaviour feeling playful or immature? How do the people around him respond to it, and what could that tell us about him?
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What patterns do you notice in the type of women James connects with? How does James respond when a woman seems vulnerable or unsure of herself?
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What patterns in James' behaviour stand out to you? How might he begin to shift those patterns if he chose to?
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James' behaviour may once have been laughed off, but in today's world, it lands differently.
a. What might help him see that? b. Who would he actually listen to? c.What would need to happen for him to become open to change?
5. Is our Free Agent, James, choosing not to commit a sign of freedom or protection? What do you think?
6. What might a Free Agent gain from staying unattached?
7. What might James risk losing?
NOTE: When a man crosses the line with a woman, have the conversation.
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