MATTHEW

Matthew is a self-assured individual. He doesn't rely on outside validation and is clear about where he's heading.  Focused and disciplined, he sets goals and pursues them with determination - even when his inner world doesn't match the calm confidence he shows on the surface.

Curious by nature, he enjoys trying new things and is open to adventure.  He is dependable and honors his word - values instilled in him by his parents and ones he takes seriously.

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For a period in his life, however, ambition became his sole focus.  Building his business, maintaining his fitness, mapping out five-year plans - he was constantly striving.  In the process, he neglected his mental well being, drifted from family and friends, and lost touch with the present moment, the here and now.

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It wasn't until a close friend invited him to a personal development event that something shifted.  The world he had carefully constructed was flawed.  Rather than ignore it, Matthew chose to confront it.  Through mentors and new tools, knowledge, he began the work of rebuilding, not just his goals, but himself.

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Today, Matthew is still energetic and driven with his career, however, he has a broader understanding of what success truly means.

He now recognises that wealth is not measured solely in business growth and financial gain, but in presence with family and friends, in moments that cannot be scheduled into five year plans.  No longer does Matthew sacrifice his mental well being or relationships.  There is more balance in his life now.  

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We learn that he meets Jennifer at a personal development event that runs over a weekend.  The two seem to have a connection.

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1. What does Matthew gain from continually investing in attending personal development events?

2. What might have helped Matthew release fear from his past and remain open to new possibilities?

3. Why do you think Matthew would put the effort in to highlighting to Jennifer of the language that is not serving her well?

4. When Matthew draws attention to Jennifer's language that isn't empowering, is that criticism or care?